Real People…

There are two types of people. Those that hate their life and do something about it and those that hate their life and don’t do anything about it. Which type are you? I often ask myself this question, especially when there are so many craziness around me. One thing is for sure you cannot expect to stay on the right path if you are walking with the wrong people. 

Some people make themselves miserable and everybody else miserable when they can rather make themselves happy and everybody else happy. This is often easier said than done. But then, Sometimes the people who act the happiest are the ones going through the most right? Yes I believe so. I admire people who choose to shine even after all the storms they have been through. There are some people that when they come into your life you just know you will never be able to replace them if they left no matter what, even when we choose to admit it or not.

When the wrong people leave your life, the right things start to happen. You may not see it but it becomes clearer when you give it time and open your heart to new opportunities. Being successful means different things to different people, to me, one of the things I call success is to be around those people who enhances your life and to enhance the lives of those around you is called significance. 

Be with people who always show you your strength and hopes and not waste time with people who constantly remind you of your failures and mistakes. Try not to chase people. Be you, do your own thing and work hard. The right people who belong in your life will come to you, and stay. Forget those people who forget you. Especially when you’ve given your best to be with them and they still choose to forget you. You are not an option… It baffles me how of all the toys in the world people choose feelings to play with. I still don’t get it

Successful people build each other.They motivate, inspire and push each other. Unsuccessful people just hate, blame and complain. The loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most hurt people are the wisest and the people who doesn’t expect from others are the happiest. Always remember, people who are truly worthy would never see any good in making others feel unworthy of themselves.


31 thoughts on “Real People…

  1. This is very true. I wish I could eliminate people that hold me back. But I hope one day I can have the strength to overcome this obstacle in my life.

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    1. Ok buddy noted. It’s so thoughtful of you to share with us. I guess you belong to the class of people who like their life and keep working to keep it that way right? I believe that no matter how much we love our lives we must take into cognisant the fact that there will always be circumstances in life that may change the life we so much love. When that happens do we sit back and do nothing? #my thoughts buddy. How have you been?


      1. i guess what i dint like so much as you were at the absolute opposite ends of the spectrum…hate or not and nothing in between, which i feel there are times we may not like what is happening or happened in our lives. yes, in those times people may sit and do nothing and lament how bad things are, or they may fight back and change their lives to be on the better side.. overall, i do like my life and yes i do things to keep it that way.


  2. I am the type that hates their life and decided to do something about it. This post hits the nail straight on the head for me. I’ve always hated well I shouldn’t say always, but I would say for a good part of my life I have hated it and always wished I could change it and now I have. Thanks for sharing this beautiful truth with me and with all of us.

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    1. Yes Ma’am i make it a habit to be around good people and for the ones with negative energy that tries to come close I allow them cautiously and give them rooms to be better. Thank you for sharing with us. It’s so nice of you to drop by.

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