I have met with some people who said to me “Whitney i’m sorry but i can’t laugh nor enjoy my life. My problems are consuming me.” Even when I try to tickle them. They focus intensely on finding a solution and they won’t relax or enjoy life until the problems are solved. I often wonder; if the problem takes four years to get solved, does it mean they will wait for four years before they get to laugh or enjoy life? And if the problem doesn’t get solved in their life time, it automatically means they will never know laughter or enjoy their life through out their life time right?.
I know there are times we need to address urgent matters and there are times we need to apply spiritual disciplines in our lives, but we don’t have to live under constant pressure or rigid demands. It’s very unhealthy. Choosing to laugh, be joyful and take a light hearted approach to many things in life will do more than make you a pleasant person. Nehemiah 8:10 (KJV) Then he said unto them, Go your way, eat the fat, and drink the sweet, and send portions unto them for whom nothing is prepared: for this day is holy unto our Lord: neither be ye sorry; for the joy of the LORD is your strength.
Let’s think about this for a little while; How strong or confident are we when we are discouraged, depressed, or even down in the dumps? Not so strong right? What if I told you that you can be strong, you can find joy in the midst of all trouble and obstacles? Yes, all you have to do is allow God fill you with joy and you will begin to feel as though nothing wrong happened and you can do just about anything.
Many times, when Satan comes against us, he is simply trying to steal our joy. He wants us to fear, despair or have a negative outlook on life because he knows if he can dampen our joy, he can steal our strength. In order to stay strong, we must stay joyful. sometimes good things end in tears , so that you can have new ones with the smiles.
Start by smiling a lot, rejoice in the Lord always, find every obstacles as stepping stone to greater heights. “Philippians 4:4.”. Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears and always remember you find strength for anything when you have joy in you.
Count your age by friends, not years. Thats very interesting. I truly truly love this!!! My understanding finds me on the conclusion that what we believe is who we believe. And we should build ourself around that cause what you water is what you grow.
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Well said my dear. Thank you for your wonderful contribution. It’s highly appreciated.
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https://polldaddy.com/js/rating/rating.jsBravo!!!! This post was splendid. I loved how you remind us all to bask in the joy of life and not postpone it no matter the circumstance. I am going to repost/share on my healing blog too.
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That’s very kind of you. I also reminded myself as well. I’m glad I shared with you all. Thank you very much for stopping by and commenting.
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Thank you very much for your kind gesture. God bless you.
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https://polldaddy.com/js/rating/rating.js“Many times, when Satan comes against us, he is simply trying to steal our joy. He wants us to fear, despair or have a negative outlook on life because he knows if he can dampen our joy, he can steal our strength.” yes so true!
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Yes it is. That’s all he does: steal, kill and destroys. So we will always be his slave. It’s time for us to stand up against him and resist all his schemes, lies, deceits ect. We can only do that if we know who we are in Christ Jesus and the source of our joy. Thank you very much for your comments. It’s very thoughtful of you to respond.
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There is just too much to enjoy not to enjoy it all.
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Yes there is. Thank you for sharing with us. God bless you.
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Love the post 😉
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Thank you very much. I appreciate your kind words and response.
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You are too kind ☺️
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😘😘😘😘
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I really enjoyed this piece. It’s my favorite piece that you’ve ever written. It really touched my heart. I love it.
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Thank you dear and i’m glad you enjoyed reading it. It will only keep getting better. All we need to do is keep believing.
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You’re welcome. I hope so. I really hope so.
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Yes it will my dear. I believe.
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🙂 Smiling. Hope you are doing well.
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Yes I am. Just got back and thankfully it didn’t rain much here today.
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That’s wonderful. I’m glad to hear that you’re back. Hopefully. It rained a lot yesterday where I live. I think it’s supposed to rain today, but I haven’t seen any yet.
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The last paragraph was perfect ending.
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Thank you very much. Your words are really kind.
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Thank you 😊
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You are welcome
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Love your post so much Whitney I was just talking to my best friend about the last night! I am just at the place at the moment where I said to her I just wanna live a happy life and enjoy what I have in Christ!
Thanks 🙏
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Awwww, perfect timing…..I’m happy to hear that you have decided to live a happy life. You can and you deserve to. Don’t let anyone stop you. Go girl…..God bless you
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Thank you💖
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You are welcome.
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https://polldaddy.com/js/rating/rating.jsSuch an inspiring post. Thank you so much for sharing. 🙂 I have nominated you for the Liebster Blog Award. You can read about it here: https://2bornot2bwritingtips.com/2017/07/17/liebster-award-nomination/
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Awwww thank you very much. I wasn’t expecting this at all. I really appreciate it and will attend to it soonest. It’s so nice of you to nominate me. I really appreciate it and know that words are not just enough right now. God bless you
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Are you familiar with the concept of foreboding joy?
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I think I am. Is it the one by Brene Brown where he says Joy is the most vulnerable emotion we experience,” “And if you cannot tolerate joy, what you do is you start dress rehearsing tragedy?
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Yes! The cure is to cultivate gratitude.
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Ok. Thanks for the reminder. Its very thoughtful of you.
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https://polldaddy.com/js/rating/rating.jsFriends are riches indeed. Thanks again for encouraging me. I have nominated you for the Liebster Award. Go to my link https://thecelestialproposal.com/2017/07/18/the-liebster-award-facts-about-me/ for award details. Blessings!
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Thank you very much Ma’am. I am truly honored. I will attend to it soonest. God bless you and I’m glad you dropped by and shared with us.
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