When We Care…

You will meet people in life who feel they can’t be loved. They don’t see their own greatness or value. If it were up to them, they would become an island. They walk in fear and every one arounds them walks on eggshells. They make life boring and no matter how happy you are, you will end up sad hanging around them. They are not as bad as they portray themselves, the problem is they are scared of being happy and believes anyone who comes close is out to hurt them. For every time they shine or anyone compliments them for shinning, they cast a shadow upon themselves and stay in the dark.

We can change all that…..

When we truly care for them, we can see their value and worth when they feel worthless and down. Fear, hurt, pain, won’t let them let anyone into their heart but we can love them right and show them they deserve to be loved again. This requires trust and dedication. I always say “No one can refill from an empty glass”, so also you can’t love anyone until you first love yourself.

When we care….

When we truly care, we give them the choice to seek for hope in the future rather than remain in the hopelessness of the past. Everyone of us has a responsibility to do in the name of love, to ensure that mankind comes to understand itself but very often we become prisoners of ourselves and forget we’ve got one life to live. It’s time we stopped doing time and start living the life we planned for and dreamt of in our youth. It’s not what you loose, it’s what you gain.

We must remember that the future can only be prepared when the past is repaired. Find a way to use your life as a service to others and it will all be just fine. When you realize how valuable you are, it won’t be difficult to see it in others.

When we truly care, we become what we say and do daily. It is said that love doesn’t have any failure. If you win, you will win a heart and if you don’t, you will win a life and you’ll surely know how to live after. Your life will always be your life, but you will be truly rewarded when you give a piece of your life away to another.

When we care and as long as we have them in our hearts, we can never loose them no matter the distance. “

28 thoughts on “When We Care…

  1. I love this. How beautiful. You put this so perfectly. You’re right it’s not what we lose it’s what we gain. I’ve lost a lot over the years and I used to get mad and bitter, but now I realize that it’s what I gained that’s important. I’ve gained so much more and I am blessed beyond measure. It took me a while to see it, but God has given me so much more than I ever deserved. Thank you Whitney. I love you. You’re such a blessing. God bless you!

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    1. You have no idea how happy I am to hear from you again. It’s been quite a while. You are no longer where you used to be anymore, as a matter of fact you are never going back. You deserve a whole lot more than you can ever imagine. You are loved my darling and thank you very much for dropping by and commenting. Please don’t stay away for too long. 😚😚

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      1. I know. It has been a while. I’ve been trying to get caught up with everyone. I’ll be getting internet at my house on Wednesday so I will be able to catch up with everyone a little bit more. I’m very excited about that. Yes ma’am and I’m glad. I never want to go back to where I was. I am very happy. Thank you I appreciate that. I need to hear that. You are so welcome. I promise to come by more often. I hope all is well with you and have a great rest of your day.


          1. That’s awesome I’m so glad. That’s okay. I understand. I’m sure you are busy with stuff. Are you still in school? I remember at one time you were studying for tests. I couldn’t remember if you were still in school or not. I hope that it’s going well for you. Thank you. I always enjoy hearing from you.

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  2. So lovely and optimistic! 🙂 I totally agree that if you change from within your environment will also become more positive. Despite the past you can still love and care with the same intensity, it may take a while to heal, but with the right people and right attitude it’s possible . Lots of love .

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    1. Yes indeed fluffy teddy bear, it may take time to heal but with the right attitude it’s possible. I love the way you said it. Thank you very much for your kind response. I’m honored to have you stop by. Happy Holidays to you and yours.

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    1. Definitely Mahdheebah, it’s not always about what we loose but what we gain along the way. There’s always a lesson and the secrets of champions is in their story not in their victories.
      Merry Christmas in advance.


    1. I am grateful to have you here. You are a rare gem, wonderfully and carefully made, never forget that.
      Never quit. If you stumble get back up. What happened yesterday no longer matters. Today’s another day so get back on track and move closer to your dreams and goals. You can anything and be anything you want to be sect 20.
      Thank you very much for dropping by and sharing with us. I truly appreciate it.
      Happy Holidays to you.

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