Reconcile With Yourself


Sometimes feelings of love, hate, fear etc. can get the best of us. Take a deep breath and redirect your thoughts, have faith, it will lead to the best solution.

Build Some Borders


I have a strong personality, and my man is easier going­čśÄ. He has no problem with my doing as I please( well, most of the time). He allows me to watch my favourite cartoons or soaps when he’s supposed to watch his games. He’s also agreeable to most of the social plans I make even…… Continue reading Build Some Borders

The. Good. Father.


[ The good father takes pleasure in making your wrongs right]

Vulnerability…


On my way to school today my girlfriend couldn’t stop ranting about how she hates being vulnerable and prefers to be uptight at all times. She spoke with so much anger and less enthusiasm and that left me seriously in thoughts. Over the years life has taught me to always be objective in everything I…… Continue reading Vulnerability…

Be Angry But Do Not Err!


Ephesians 4:6 How humanly possible is this? There are some situations that leaves you boiling at the rate where you feel your heart is sending heavy smokes to your head. A wise man once said”Never speak when you are angry”, “Never take a decision when you are angry”, “Never make promises when you are angry,…… Continue reading Be Angry But Do Not Err!

Women And Anger…..


Anger! Anger! Anger! Uhhhhh.. When a man gets angry it is considered normal but when a woman gets angry, the whole world comes to a stand still, it makes headline news and considered abnormal and the woman said to be bitter. The recent reports on violence among girls in schools especially public schools has been on…… Continue reading Women And Anger…..

Anger And Masculinity….


Many men seem to have the strange idea that anger is a justifiable masculine trait. How absurd right? “Every man gets angry,” they exclaim. Some would even insist that a man who doesn’t have anger problem is not a real man. Still can’t fathom how they came up with that line! Nothing could be further…… Continue reading Anger And Masculinity….